- ruthleivers
- Jan 27, 2024
- 2 min read
It was another early morning wake up. In the dark, I was ruminating about something that had happened the day before, I was in anxiety because I could not let it go and I was angry at myself.Â
The anger was tinged with shame because the hits kept coming.
Why did you do that?
That was stupid?Â
What were you thinking?Â
UGH!
This was a normal occurrence in my mind and heart. I was going through a difficult time and I was definitely not acting as though I was in my own corner.
Mindful Self Compassion
A friend introduced me to mindful self compassion. We were walking on the beach and she had gone from an unhappy mess to a compassionate happy mess. I asked her what she had done to change her mindset.
She pointed me towards MSC. I was skeptical, but I wasn't willing to continue as I was. The stress from lack of sleep alone was enough.
I signed up for my first MSC course.Â
 I was terrified!Â
 What would it be like? Â
Who would I be in class with? Â
What had I done? Â
So much anxiety. Â
However, I reminded myself that this might be just fine and to try it out. So, I did.Â
The first class eased my fears with a dissemination of the research and a few experiences that piqued my interest. I returned for the next class and so began my journey. Through the use of the techniques of MSC, I have learned to tend to my needs and befriend myself.
I think about what I need, I give myself the space to take a breath and I take care of myself.
Mindful Self compassion is based on the work of Kristin Neff PhD and Christopher Germer PhD. The core tenets around which the program centers are self-kindness, noticing our common humanity and mindful awareness.
Join me, enjoy a free introductory hour and learn what MSC might have for you.